Wednesday, June 18, 2008

FutureCasting


What does Melissa's future hold for her? It is so hard to predict. She has such a range of abilities and non-abilities. She is starting to read, and even write her own storybooks. She does math at school, and can laugh at a joke. But she has such a hard time interpreting what is going on with other people. She always thinks people are laughing at her, or are going to laugh at her. In some ways her odd obsession with being made fun of only points out my own tendency to personalize things. Don't we all imagine that there is a "Kick Me" sign pinned to our back, and other's are snickering? Melissa is just real enough to vocalize that fear, as often as she has it. "Those kids think I'm a joke!" she will protest - not true, but painful enough. I think her future success is going to depend upon her developing some way to cope with this anxiety. She will have to join the rest of us.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Returning to the Planet


I am back. Some loving encouragement has brought me back to Melissa's blog. I am glad it is still here. Only three years have passed! LOL - as they say.
Melissa is counting down the days until 3rd grade is over. It has been a trying year for her at the new school with the "professional" autism support team. Despite transferring over to the new school district with a file already 3 inches thick from her school, the new people tried to reinvent the wheel until April, when Melissa finally said "I've had enough of you!" by throwing chairs across the room.
Our IEP meeting was 12 people strong and included the head of the Special Education division of the school district and lasted 3 1/2 hours.
Things are much better now that they are not using the "quiet room" a.k.a. bank vault closet in Melissa's plan.
Her latest art is taking a fantasy turn, lots of dragons and wizards and fairies. I enjoyed the brief mermaid/merman phase. Hope you do too.